NO means NO! ONLY Yes means Yes! Always ask. Do not do not assume consent. Recognize and respect people’s personal boundaries. People have different comfort levels with physical and emotional intimacy. Before you assume someone wants a big kiss, hug, or any touching to a new best friend, ask them. When someone says NO, it means NO. It also means that pleading, manipulating, harassing, or intimidating in any form is UNACCEPTABLE. Tips for maintaining your personal safety and well-being:
不的意思就是不！只有可以的意思才是可以！始終記得先開口徵詢。不要自以為對方是同意。了解並且尊重對方的個人底限。每個人的肢體及情感的親密接受度都不一樣。在你自以為對方想要一個吻，一個擁抱或者其他撫摸時，請先問他/她。當對方說了不，這就意味著不！這也意味著你不可以再繼續懇求，玩弄，騷擾或恐嚇對方！這裡有一些小貼士來保障你的人身安全：
- Communicate with those around you about anything making you uncomfortable.
- You are in charge of your boundaries. You must be sober enough to be in control and say no.
- You must ask before photographing, videotaping, or recording anyone on any media. If you are asked to stop, you must do so immediately.
- Tolerate and respect your fellow participants by not interfering with their enjoyment, art, or expression.
- Remember: you are responsible for your own experience.
- 任何讓你感受到不舒服，及時與你周圍的人溝通
- 你掌控你自己的底限。你必須保持清醒，並能夠說不
- 在你給任何人拍照，攝像或記錄語音圖像前，必須徵得對方的同意。如果對方拒絕你的請求，你必須馬上停止
- 尊重並包容你周圍的活動參與者們，不要干擾他們的快樂，不要影響他們的藝術作品，
- 謹記：你的體驗感受，你自己說了算
We thank you all for coming to Lantern Burn and we know that you will have a wonderful time. Respect yourself, respect others, respect the land, respect the rules. If you think you could help for next year as an organizer, please let us know.
我們感謝你來參加燃燈焱活動，我們也相信你一定會度過一段美好的時光。尊重自己，尊重他人，尊重這片土地，尊重所有的規則。如果你覺得自己有興趣想要給予活動更多的幫助，請隨時與我們聯繫。